ok i am a new user to this and all and i have it set up and install.  the question i have is.  i would like to see the allvideo to be something simlair to what tnawrestling.com has,  not copy it.  but something simlair.  how would i go about doing that or point me in the right direction.

:) :)

Do you mean something like this: CHECK THE DEMO VIDEOS FOLLOWING on the
demo.joomlaworks.net/

Notice the Read more link below...
If that is what you want is different allvideos inside tabs & slides plugin. ;)