I use the plugin AllVideos.
Now I want only 1 movie start automatically so not all like you in the plugin setup.
I have seen on the website of AllVideos that you should use,
5. Easy, descriptive syntax for media embedding - {format / provider} filename {/ format / provider}. You can Also use syntax like {format / provider} filename | width | height | AutoPlay {/ format / provider} (eg an "auto playing"

The video is a wmv

This will not work with me.
Is there a good solution ....

I know how to do it

This is an example:

{wmv} fireworks | 640 | 480 | 1 {/ wmv}.

640 = height
480 = width
1 AutoPlay so it will be played once

thanks very good

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